We just have to find it.
Consider this…from Genesis 6.
“When the Lord saw the extent of human wickedness, and that the trend and direction of men’s lives were only towards evil, he was sorry he had made them. It broke his heart.”
The disappointment and the negative experience.
However, three verses later it says this, “But Noah was a pleasure to the Lord.”
The positive outcome.
We have to find the Noah’s that we find pleasure in when it comes to people.