“Don’t spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door.” Coco Chanel
Sometimes you can wish, hope, beg, plead and pray, and what you want to happen, is not going to take place.
They will not, it will not, whatever it is, will not, can not, be transformed into what you want them, or it, to be.
Beating on the wall, will neither allow you to escape from where you are, or for them to enter from where they are.
You will only end up with blood on your own hands or head, from beating on a wall.