My “knower” kicked in.
I took steps to be assertive and did not concern with the potential negative outcome. I only saw the positive that my action would bring, even for a temporary respite.
I began to remind myself of those things in my life that I know are going to have a positive outcome and that no circumstance can keep that outcome from happening, irregardless of how bleak it looks at times.
To get your “knower” going you have to determine what you want and you have to determine that nothing or no one will keep you from achieving that which you know.
But you have to know it.
Your “knower” can be like a light bulb of confidence which sometimes will surge at times with an additional current of voltage causing more light, sometimes less.
Surge ahead…assert your confidence…ascertain your path to achieving…
…what you know.
I am still smiling.